Give It Up!

A Sermon by the Rev. Kerra Becker English delivered on August 10, 2003

Bible Reference: John 7:37-39; Psalms 104:24-34


My friend Carol Gathagan who was here visiting a couple of weeks ago has a radio ministry called "Faith Break" back in Altoona. Her short spots are interjections of real life told from a faith perspective and they air on the Classic Rock station there. I remember that one of the stories that hit me while I was listening in my car was about a woman who moved into a new suburban neighborhood with her family. In order to impress others and try to get to know her neighbors, she spent hours tending the flowerbeds and the small details of keeping her yard neat and tidy. She threw lavish parties where she made all the hors d'ouvres herself. She baked cookies for every school function and even volunteered to drive the kids to soccer practice. But even with all this work and energy, she seemed not to be making any new friends. She barely got more than a casual "hello" from any of her neighbors, which led her, in her loneliness, to pick fights with her kids and cry when her husband got home from work.



One morning after a particularly frustrating day, she was in a hurry to get some shopping done and backed right into her neighbor's car as she was coming out of the driveway. When she got out of her car, much to her amazement, here was her neighbor and a few other onlookers giving her a great big round of applause. The next-door neighbor's response to her was, "It's good to know that you're not perfect!" After much laughter and a few tears, the women became fast friends.



She had to give up her idea of being the "perfect" neighbor, and settle for being imperfect - just like the rest of us. Only Jesus was perfect. The best any of the rest of us can be is to let that perfection of Jesus come through us as often as we possibly can.



The woman in the story had listened to so many "shoulds" and so many "ought-tos" that she had her life tied up in knots. She couldn't even see that the very things she was doing to get closer to others was exactly what was keeping her at a distance from everyone else in the community. Those shoulds, those ought-tos - If you have a bunch of them rattling around in your head - Give them up! Give them up right now! They never got anyone any closer to heaven. They never got anyone any closer to perfection.



Maybe you can say it with me, "GIVE IT UP!"





Think about what is it that you need to give up to let the Holy Spirit flow freely through your life. I hope it isn't so drastic that you need to wreck your car or be proverbially "hit by a bus" to see what it is that is keeping you from knowing the spiritual joy that comes into your life when those barriers are removed.



Jesus uses plenty of symbolic language to make his points in John's gospel, and the scripture lesson for this morning is no exception. In all of chapter 7, he's speaking to a crowd who has no patience for what he's trying to say. In the scene we have gathered the impatient disciples who want him to reveal himself with a sideshow, and the religious leaders who want to catch him in the act of blasphemy or treason. No one seems to be "getting the point." So finally, on the last day of the festival, he raises his voice to say, "Let anyone who is thirsty come to me, and let the one who believes in me drink. As the scripture says, 'Out of the believer's heart shall flow rivers of living water.'"



Rivers of living water! What a great image! Jesus says that the Spirit flows through believers like a river of water that is truly alive. But how do we get there? How do we get to the place where the Spirit is so free to move within our spirits?





Jesus gives us a bit of instruction. First, he says, "Let anyone who is thirsty come to me." Do you know how thirsty you are? Can you feel the dryness of your tongue? That parched feeling at the back of your throat? Do you know what it truly means to be so "poor in the spirit" that you actually sense your own need for spiritual healing? Many of us don't. The woman in the story didn't. She was so busy filling her self, filling her life with giving parties and gardening and chauffeuring that she couldn't even recognize how all that had mopped up her spiritual reservoirs. It took an intervening act of God to waken her to her own thirst. It was the laughter at her own misfortune that set her free. The first step in any spiritual renewal is to give up what's preventing us from knowing our own thirst. It's easy at times to recognize the material things and the "lesser gods" that we frequently use to satisfy the dry and barren parts of our lives - but it's not so easy to confront the "gods" that Jesus was confronting with this powerful Pentecost moment.



Jesus, in this early speech, was speaking at the religious festival that would later give birth to the Christian church, and John makes the editorial comment that "there was no Spirit" yet in their community. That's harsh. We too can block our own spiritual renewal with too much "religiosity" or with our own churchy politicking. A lot of those "shoulds" out there disguise themselves as religious teaching. So I say, "Give it up!" Give up the "things" that only temporarily satisfy, and give up the idea that serving the bureaucratic structure of the church and participating in "religious things" is the long cool glass of water. It isn't. At it's best, church should point to that water, but it isn't that water.



So again say it with me, "GIVE IT UP!"





The long cool glass of water that truly quenches our thirst can only come from one place - our belief in Jesus to satisfy our every need. Jesus says, let the thirsty come, but he also says, let the one who believes drink. Once we recognize our own thirst, the next step is to drink, and to drink deeply, to drink often, to drink until we are actually relieved of the thirst that bids us to come. Again, how do we drink? This is symbolic language, and the language of symbol can be quite complex. We may find our ways of drinking to be different from one another. For some, the drink may come in times of prayer, for others, in study, for others, in the quiet times, for others, by experiencing the life of the community, for others, by helping someone in need, and on and on it goes. We drink whenever we can let go enough to let God work through us. This idea of spiritual surrender is one of the most ancient and most true bits of wisdom revealed to humankind.



However, our society teaches us to be obsessed with maintaining control, while our deeper, more spiritual wisdom tells us that the clearest way to knowing God is relinquishing control. Not my will, God, but Thine. It appears over and over again in scripture. People get into trouble when they abandon God's voice and replace it with their own. It isn't easy. It may sound easy, but to really believe in the power of Jesus working through takes a lot of courage. It sounds too good to be true. But I would challenge you also to give up control and drink of the living water in Jesus Christ. "Give it up!" Give up your own thirst by letting the love of Christ be poured into you.



Say it with me, "GIVE IT UP!"





Once we name our thirst and drink of the fountain of life, then, Jesus says, then the "rivers of living water" will flow from our hearts. Only when we are filled can we begin to fill others, only then can we begin to fill this world of pain with the joy of God's love. The Holy Spirit becomes alive in communities that freely allow this water to flow in any and all directions. We need to unstop the dams of our own making. We need to unstop the dammed church (Pardon the pun) so that the river will flow and no one will dare breathe about us, "There was no Spirit there because they don't believe in Jesus glorified."





In the movie, "Tortilla Soup," a girlfriend and boyfriend are talking like young adults talk about how life is supposed to be, and the girl asks her friend, "Why aren't you applying to colleges?" The young Brazilian boy, an exchange student, says, "I think if you tell life what it has to be you limit it; but if you let it show you what it wants to be it will open doors you never knew existed."





GIVE IT UP!





If you tell life what it has to be you limit it, but if you let it show you what it wants to be, it will open doors you never knew existed. Wow! That's a statement of faith, the kind of faith that comes with being open to the Holy Spirit working through us.





In the psalm reading, we are reminded that when our hands are opened - we are filled with good things, when God's spirit is sent forth we are created, renewed, and the whole earth rejoices along with us. God's love is good. God's provisions are good. Being the good Presbyterian that I am, I think John Calvin was on to something with all his "predestination" stuff. Many people falsely believe that he was a fatalist - that we were either doomed or blessed according to God's whims. It goes deeper than that. It's closely linked to scripture and far wiser than that. Calvin believed that our lives had purpose and meaning BECAUSE of the good things placed in our hands, because if we just know our own thirst, Jesus will be right there inviting us to quench it. Calvin even said that the "bad" things that happen to us are all ways of God showing us another turn, another way, like backing up into our neighbor's car to have our eyes opened.





GIVE IT UP!





Open your hands. Open your hearts. Be melted, molded, filled, used by the river of flowing water that is welling up in your heart. Let it overflow today.





GIVE IT UP! You may call it your life, but you don't own it, you can't run it, and you won't save it by yourself! Get thirsty! Drink deeply! Let the love of Christ flow through you like rivers of living water. So be it! Amen.